How To Give The Best Blowjob Of His Life

If you’ve come to up your sex game, you’re at the right spot. I’ve just read article after article about blowjobs for the last hour and am ready to share the best takeaways with you. The following advice comes from sex therapists, certified freaks, and penis owners themselves. 

Pre-Sex Buildup

We all love a good story, and a little bit of a tease and buildup can take a blowjob from good to great. We want him to get him to the edge with desire for us before we give him anything. Dirty talk and nudes are perfect for this. Maybe even some public tantilization, like whispering in his ear at a dinner party. You could talk about what you want to do to him. Give him a lustful look. Touch other parts of his body and breathe in his ear. Do everything with as much confidence as you can muster - if you get embarrassed and start blubbering, it could break the spell. 

Prefacing the BJ

Now we get to actual foreplay. Start with a nice makeout and using just your hands over his dick. You can place your hand over his pants and start massaging through the clothing. Grab a bit and squeeze the balls around (lightly). Once he takes his pants off, don’t let him have it just yet. Don’t just go straight for it, it could be perceived as way too abrupt. Give him a little trailer preview of the main show before getting in there. The opener could be just as important as the main act. Or maybe it’s even part of the main act, just the opening scene. I guess the goal is to make it all part of the main act. 

Anyways, back to the instructions. Make sure you use your dirty talk and use EYE CONTACT. Men love to see you down there peering up at him while doing the dirty. You can kiss his ‘down there’ general area and massage the balls all over. Then when the time feels right…

Actually Giving the Blowjob

Let’s start with the basics. Sex therapists recommend you shape your mouth in the shape when you pronounce the word ‘purple’. I think that sounds pretty accurate, but make sure you also stick your tongue slightly outward so it’s at least at your front bottom teeth. 

The most sensitive spot on a dick is the area right below the tip. That’s where your tongue should go (flicking motion is great). One tactic is to start the BJ with this area before putting it entirely into your mouth. 

Keep your tongue soft and loose, feel free to play around with motion and textures of your mouth on the dick. Spit is GREAT, don’t be shy and use plenty of it to keep things wet and flowing. We don’t like friction here. 

Try some different positions! It doesn’t have to be just you on your knees while he’s standing. He can get on his back, you can get in 69 position, you can lie on your back on a bed while he’s standing over you. Punch a hole through some cardboard and make your own glory hole. So many different options. 

And if this gets comfortable, you can try:

Deep Throating

Now deep throating isn’t for the weak and not everyone is aware that they haven’t actually done a deep throat. When you deep throat, you’ll feel the dick push past your throat and really slide in even further. I thought I was deep throating until someone actually shoved it in further than I thought imagineable and wow my perception of everything changed. 

For deep throating, you’ll want to position your head to the way the dick bends. Dicks bend in literally every angle so it could very well be different for different partners. If it bends downwards, that’s a good angle to be kneeling in front of him. If it bends upwards, then get on back on the bed and go upside down. 

Reminders

Continue to play with his balls during this and keep your canines tucked away. You can also play with temperatures for some added heat (literally). Now once you’ve gotten him to orgasm, make your decision on whether to swallow. I haven’t read articles about how to swallow jizz yet so stay tuned for when I educate myself on that!

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