How To Have Your First Hands Free Orgasm

Sep 3

If you’re in need of trying out something new in your sex life, you’ve come to the right blog post. Hands-free orgasms are any orgasm that doesn’t require the use of your hands. By most definitions, it doesn’t refer to the use of a partner’s hands, oral, or hand-held toy, either.

Some examples of hands-free orgasms include (and are further detailed later in the blog):

Humping
Wearable toys
Erotic hypnosis
Kegels
Penetrative play without the use of hands

How To Have A Hands Free Orgasm?

There are so many different ways to have a hands free orgasm that we’ll detail below, but first, here are some general guidelines to follow:

Start by getting aroused. Listen to erotica, watch porn, do anything that’ll get you in the mood.
Relax. This part will get easier with practice, but make sure you take pressure off of yourself to perform and just have fun with it. If it becomes too frustrating, you can use your hands for backup.
Start off trying by yourself. This could help with the first two steps and getting to explore a hands free orgasm without any shame possible.
Focus on rhythm. Channel in your breathing and your muscle contractions to eventually have enough control to get to orgasm.

Tactics:

Bath/shower: Water is a great way to build up to a hands free massage. Position yourself so the water hits you in just the right spot (applicable for dicks and vaginas).
Sleep: Masturbate without orgasming and fall asleep right after. The goal is to then have a wet dream that leads to orgasm!
Work out: Do core exercises to relax your pelvic floor, which can lead to orgasm.
Humping furniture: Self explanatory.
Suction cup dildo: Suction to a piece of furniture or the wall and ride it out!
Humping with a partner: Try humping different parts of their body, including their leg, crotch, knee, and back.
BDSM: There are tons of hands-free ways to orgasm with this. Play with all the sensations to get there: for example, hot wax through temperature play, dirty talk and degradation, or handcuffing and spanking.
Tantric sex: This is an Indian ancient practice that involves weaving yourself into a partner and connecting on a deeper level. Here is a full guide.
Turbulence: Sometimes, people can experience orgasms from turbulence on an airplane or from sitting on a washing machine. Do with that what you will.

There’s a magical subsection of hands-free orgasms that few have been able to accomplish, called orgasmic breathing. With that, you’d take deep and intentional breaths to get to orgasm. With practice, it can be made possible. Here is a guide to orgasmic breathing.

Erotic hypnosis is another subsection where you can follow a guided meditation to achieve orgasm hands-free.

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